define friendship. a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more people. mutual knowledge. esteem. and affection. it's more than having them behind your back cheering for you. it's more than whacking the person who owned you during the game. it's more than that. in primary school, friendship is just, 'hey i friend you ah?' 'okay! friend you too!' but in the real world, it's more of a 'brotherhood' kinda feeling. and of course things get serious. worst case senario, violence. now i finally understand what jesse told me long time ago. that we're all start to bitch less. we'll all start to mature as an adult. not because we need to. it's because we want to. to compromise and to change for people worth changing for, for friends.

we choose friends because of who they are. but it turns out that we actually love them because of the way they support who we are.





friendship usually come after parent bonding. and BEFORE the boyfriend girlfriend thing. and between the end of early childhood and the onset of full adulthood, friendships are often the most important relationships in the emotional life of the adolescent, and are often more intense than relationships later in life. however, making friends can trouble many too. it is emotionally damaging to people without friends. and because of that, it will lead to suicide. bitching is another issue. a very common issue now. it is when our mouth is transformed into the most lethal weapon on earth. be it bitching behind someone's back or bitching in his/her face. it hurts one's feeling. it breaks heart. and it's most unbelievable that these 'predators' dont know they're causing much hurt to the one they just bitched about. they find it 'okay' to bitch and bitch on, and bitch on further. it's just frustrating.

you go out into the world. to do your best. you have your ups and downs. your problems and triumphs. your fun and not-so-fun. you charm people. you make yourself look good. you breathe in because you think you look fat. you perform. then, you come home to a friend. you relax. put your feet up. you are relieved. BUT IF you still have to be charming, still have to perform, make yourself look fun. i really dont think he/she is your friend.

being able to trust and relax with your friend is a big part of friendship.





just think about it. friends last a lifetime. acquaintance dont last at all.
bitch on and live your life alone. or just go and die lah. and when you reach old age, you'll live a life so solitude that you'll ask your doctor to finish you off.
nobody wants to grow old alone. if you're losing friends. if you know your friends are sometimes annoyed by you. if you know you bitch too much. errr? stop lah! change. start now. think before you say something. THINK.

friendships can lose importance and die gradually. it takes both sides maintain it.





and ummms, i wasnt referring to anybody. just felt like blogging. just felt like blogging how i feel. just felt like blogging out things i think about when i brush teeth. yeah i still hate exams. bye.